the Almighty's mouth

Which is best? Doing your job as good as you can, behaving yourself, and being friendly, so you show an example, a way for those around you. Assuming this way they can be happy or feel good. Or just being and letting them be. Maybe reading their optional futures in the cards, the tea leaves, whatever. Or pursuing to convince them one way or another to follow someone else's example. By giving them an example through your own life that's supposed to reflect for instance, God's life when He walked this Earth.
These are different ways which also leaves you feeling differently when you don't seem to succeed. When your colleagues, neighbors, family members or the people whom you believed to be your friends let you down. Even when you've tried to give them your best, doesn't matter based on what conviction. Maybe you did so simply because you saw they had a troubled time, and wanted to cheer them up. But you can't always succeed. Yet you can always try.